"You catch more flies with honey than vinegar." Personally, I prefer to swat the little buggers. However, the same thing can be said of using humor.

Humor allows you to make a point, especially if it is unpleasant or downright nasty, without the intention of giving offense and getting punched verbally or physically. Of course, there are always exceptions to every wise statement, even this one.

Think of the times you said something in jest, with a smile on your face, but meant every word. Even though your comment may have been critical or even insulting, the method of delivery made all the difference. read more